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Restoring the Ties that Bind Us

Beloved community of dear friends and neighbors, I think we all recognize that we exist today at a pivotal moment, not only in our own lives, but in the life of our nation and the world. We find ourselves now at a time of transition, where the very fabric of our society is being continuously tested. When we look around, it’s hard not to notice that something has definitely changed. The tight-knit bonds that we used to count on to hold us together have clearly unraveled. And with that, something crucial has been lost.

Lessons from the Past

In past generations, we built strong communities. We did not rely on wealth or technology, but on the values we upheld and the relationships we nurtured. Neighbors knew each other by name. There was a shared sense of accountability and a commitment to one another’s wellbeing. People gathered at town halls, community events, and places of worship, not just out of tradition, but because of a genuine desire to be part of something bigger than themselves. Those communities were what shaped us. They provided safety, support, and a sense of belonging.

But somewhere along the way, these connections have weakened. We have allowed the pace of modern life, the allure of convenience, and the rise of technology to all contribute to this shift. We became more isolated, more individualistic, and more focused on our own pursuits, often at the expense of our connections to each other. We stopped showing up for each other in the same way, or sometimes at all. Instead of relying on one another, we began to outsource everything—our security, our education and that of our little ones, our beliefs, our philosophies, and even our sense of identity.

Remember when we had towns where Main Street used to be the heart of a community. Now, we have big box stores and online shopping. These have replaced the small, local businesses that were once the lifeblood of our neighborhoods. The local mechanic, the family-owned grocer, the town diner—these were not just businesses, they were gathering places. They represented the soul of a community, where people knew each other, helped each other, and trusted each other. When we lost those places, we may have gained more convenience—but we sacrificed the personal connections that sustain us.

Unity in Shared Values and Principles

And let’s not forget the importance of shared values. Communities used to thrive on the principles of hard work, respect, and personal responsibility. These values were passed down from generation to generation, not just through words, but through action. Parents taught their children the value of a handshake, the meaning of one’s word, and the importance of showing up for a neighbor in a time of need. But today, it feels as though we’ve let those principles just kind of- disappear. We see the effects in the breakdown of family life, the erosion of trust between people, and the increasing reliance on external authorities to solve problems that were once handled within the community.

But all is not lost. The fact that we recognize what has been dismantled means that we have the power to restore it. Now is the time to seek out our neighbors, to rebuild the bonds that have frayed, and to do so not only for ourselves but for the future of this world. In this time of transition, what we do now will determine what kind of world our children and grandchildren will inherit.

What We Can Do Today

So how do we begin? First, we must recommit ourselves to the values that once made our communities strong. We must take personal responsibility for the wellbeing of those around us. This means stepping up when we see a need, even if it’s inconvenient. It means connecting with our neighbors, not just in times of crisis, but in the everyday moments when community is built. It’s easy to talk about unity, but real unity requires action and commitment.

Second, we must reinvest in the institutions that bring people together. Whether it’s our schools, libraries, local businesses, or community centers, we need to have these places where relationships are formed, where trust is built, and where values are taught. We cannot allow these important establishments to fade away. We must support them, not only with our dollars, but with our time and energy. If we want future generations to inherit strong communities, we must be willing to invest in them now.

Third, we must teach our children the importance of community. This is not just about educating them in schools, but about modeling for them what it means to be a good neighbor, a responsible citizen, and a person of integrity. They will not learn these things from screens or social media; they will learn them from us. It is our duty to pass down the values that will prepare them for the future.

Building the Future, Together

We are living through a time of great change, and it is easy to feel uncertain about what lies ahead. But one thing is clear: if we want to navigate this transition successfully, we must do it together. We cannot rebuild our communities by relying on someone else to do the work for us. We must be the builders, the nurturers, and the protectors of the ties that bind us.

Let us take this moment to reflect on what has been lost, but let us also recognize the opportunity we have to restore and rebuild. This is not just about returning to the way things were—it is about creating something even stronger, something that will last for generations to come.

Our Collective Legacy

**This is our moment. This is the time to stand up and reclaim what we have lost. If we do nothing, we risk leaving behind a world where future generations do not know what it feels like to belong, to be part of a community that lifts them up and holds them steady. But if we act—if we invest our time, our energy, and our love into rebuilding the foundations of our communities—we can ensure that the legacy we pass on is one of strength, resilience, and hope.**

Let us not delay this work any longer. Let us not wait for someone else to come along and fix what has been broken. The responsibility is ours, and the future of our communities depends on the choices we make today. Together, we can restore what has unraveled. Together, we can restore the values that once made us strong. Together, we can fortify our neighborhoods, our families, and our shared values. Together, we can build a future where our children and grandchildren will know the true meaning of what it is to belong to something greater than themselves. And together, we can build something that will stand the test of time.

**Let us begin this work today, right now, with each other. The future is waiting, and it is up to us to make it strong.**

Amen

One Comment

  • Rev. Sharon Madsen (Lynne) Reply

    Very nicely said, I like listening to the recording as it gives more value to your words. I agree with you 100%. Our children are the future……..
    So sad that for some it’s to late, they have such anger and hate, they have been brainwashed. I was brought up in a church, my father was a minister, my mother was church pianist. I and my brother and sisters sang. I tried to bring my family up in a good entertainment , they are good respectful citizens. Somewhere along the line we stopped going to church. Each went his or her own way.
    We need to come back together now before our churches are all closed down. I am a minister, nondenominational. I don’t care what religion you are, there is only ONE GOD. I believe in the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. It’s truly all about Love.

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